25 May 2016

The Pacific Coast Highway in Pictures

We had an AWESOME time on the Pacific Coast Highway. Ciara and I flew into Seattle and drove all the way to San Diego. We literally did so many things every day that I had to keep a list. We had really 3 main focuses: see anything and everything cool along the way (this meant stopping at EVERY beach town and doing all the tourist things), do a pilgrimage of the missions of St. Junipero (we hit up 11 out of 21!), and go through the Holy Doors as we passed them (we received six (I think) plenary indulgences for the Jubilee Year of Mercy!). Oh, and we wanted to do it on the cheap (which we accomplished.)

Without further ado, here are (SOME of) the pictures!

St. Junipero Serra, Apostle of California, pray for us!
















































29 April 2016

Thinking with the Mind of Jesus

So something very interesting happened at work yesterday.

In our team meeting (5 men + me), we got to talking about doomsday-preppers.

(Back story: Our department in particular (but not my team, for some reason) has a surprising amount of people from Salt Lake City... and therefore a lot of Mormons. On our team of six, we have a guy who grew up Catholic but doesn't practice, two guys who I suspect are Christian, even if only nominally, one guy with two degrees in Biblical Studies, one who is a very active non-denom, and me.)

Anyways, I mentioned that a lot of Mormons are doomsday-preppers which sparked an interesting conversation. We leave the team meeting and go back to our desks and the question arises from a book or movie someone'd seen called The Road. Apparently in this scenario, all the food is gone and a father has 4 bullets left. He decides to kill his two children, wife, and himself, rather than watch them all starve to death.

So we went around talking about what we would do in that scenario. I was THE ONLY one who said I would have to watch them starve to death. Granted, I'm the only one who isn't married or a parent, so maybe my point of view is irrelevant. When I said I'd HAVE to watch them starve, I think my colleagues thought it was because I couldn't physically bring myself to kill them. Each of them said they couldn't watch their kids starve. My teammate with the masters degrees in Biblical Studies even said it would be the more compassionate thing to do. Then I said "what about morally?" which changed his tune a bit. I added "human suffering is redemptive." He agreed with me and then said, "but think about needless suffering, like when you take a cat or dog to put it down." I interrupted and said "yes, but it isn't the same. Animal suffering cannot be redemptive, human suffering can be." He was hesitant but I think he saw my side. Then another colleague said "I don't know what kind of religion YOU follow that would want people to suffer." And the conversation was over.

The thing I find most interesting about the entire exchange is that it took me saying the word morally for a Christian worldview to turn on.

It's also SO telling about our current society: suffering is the worst thing that could possibly happen to anyone.

But the sacrifice of Jesus' life on the cross carried with it LOTS of suffering, His own, Mary's, the disciples, even ours when we unite ourselves to Him in that moment. And it is beautiful.

What do you think? Would you watch your family starve or be responsible for their deaths?

St. Gianna, pray for us!

27 April 2016

Hello From the Other Side

There are a few things I wish I would have known when I left FOCUS, so I'm writing this to anyone who may find themselves in that situation now or in the future.

Welcome to the "real world." And congratulations. After having served with FOCUS, you are fully equipped to live out the Great Commission in the context of our modern world. Coming from the college campus, you've seen some dark things. You've likely seen the effects of stress, addiction, apathy, promiscuity, recklessness, mental illness, and more on young people. But you've also seen something really beautiful. You've seen and been surrounded daily by thousands of people searching for themselves, for their path in life, for their future, for God... for Truth. I hope that you've been flourishing and thriving, learning to live order and to give abundantly. You have many fruits to show for your time spent over the last few years. I hope that your team has shown you what true Christian community looks like, and that you've learned to love with Jesus's love, which never counts the cost.

As you transition into the "real world," you'll find something that nothing except lived experience could prepare you for. Offices and neighborhoods and grocery stores and restaurants and downtown bars are full of people who are held captive by apathy and resigned to mediocrity. Parish life is full of people who often don't know what a lived relationship with Jesus looks like, and who have likely not experienced community in the way that you have. Coupled with the "this is how we've always done it" attitude, you've got a lot of work to do.

Getting a career off the ground is no small task. When I transitioned from FOCUS to my current field in finance, I was the low man on the totem pole, I wasn't paid well, and I worked 50+ hours per week. Think: FOCUS NST + having to make your own meals + not having a holy hour carved out for you + all new friendships with people radically different from yourself. Times 50 weeks per year. I'm not sure what field you're going into, but it will surely come with it's challenges. In FOCUS, you had a built in community, a clear mission field, plenty of time to read and grocery shop and cook and exercise (teaching the art of living!) and required prayer time. In the real world, no one is going to notice if you don't show up to daily Mass. No one in your office is going to ask you if you prayed today.

It seems doom and gloom, but it isn't. It's your new mission. And it's radically different (and I'd say radically more difficult) from your previous mission. But God has called you to it for a reason.

So let's get down to it. Here's my advice:

1. Schedule Prayer and Mass. Make this an absolute priority. You cannot thrive as a Sunday Mass Catholic. Trust me, I've tried. It will not work. You've had a taste of a strong relationship with Jesus and nothing less will satisfy you. If you can only make it to daily Mass one day a week, so be it. Just make a commitment and stick to it. I can almost promise you that you WILL go through a period of desolation in the first year out of FOCUS, and at that point mantra is this: we make plans in consolation and we stick to them in desolation. Make your plan now. Are you going to pray in the morning? At night? What type of prayer will you pray? How many minutes? Who will hold you accountable?

2. Find a community. This one will take time. Be patient with yourself and others. Reach out to the Alumni Team to see if there are other former missionaries or disciples in your area. Get plugged in at your parish. Find a young adult group. It's probable that whatever is going on at your parish will not be the community that you're used to. You may feel like you have to slowly introduce the young adults to Jesus and invite them to have a relationship with Him. If you can't find a community of people who are already intentional about discipleship, START one. God made us to live in parishes for a reason. Keep in touch with your staff mentor or your teammates and disciples who are going through these things with you, even if you're not in the same location. I still spend a lot of time on the phone with missionary alum all over the place. If that's the support you need to be an evangelist, then good!

3. Evangelize anyway. Don't forget what you know. You know how to do discipleship. You know how to evangelize. Even if you can't get it right in prayer, even if you can't find a community, even if there are a thousand reasons not to and you feel like you're alone, don't give up. Do not stop leading small groups, inviting people into a relationship with Jesus, and teaching others to do the same. 



Today's Gospel from John 15 says:

Jesus said to his disciples:
"I am the true vine, and my Father is the vine grower.
He takes away every branch in me that does not bear fruit,
and everyone that does he prunes so that it bears more fruit.
You are already pruned because of the word that I spoke to you.
Remain in me, as I remain in you.
Just as a branch cannot bear fruit on its own
unless it remains on the vine,
so neither can you unless you remain in me.
I am the vine, you are the branches.
Whoever remains in me and I in him will bear much fruit,
because without me you can do nothing.
Anyone who does not remain in me
will be thrown out like a branch and wither;
people will gather them and throw them into a fire
and they will be burned.
If you remain in me and my words remain in you,
ask for whatever you want and it will be done for you.
By this is my Father glorified,
that you bear much fruit and become my disciples."


You have been bearing fruit, and you will again in the future. Along the way, Jesus WILL prune you. And it hurts to be pruned. You will come out smaller, stronger, and more humble. And you'll be holier and bear more fruit because of it.

Remember, you weren't made for comfort. And we're praying for you.

St. Therese of Lisieux, pray for us.
St. Catherine of Sienna, pray for us.
St. John Paul the Great, pray for us. 

24 April 2016

Happy Easter! (+ #30b430 Update)

I view my blog and keep up with bloggers I follow very regularly, but lately I haven't felt like I have had much to say.

I think it's because life is just scooting right along as quickly as ever and it's been very routine around here.

I started my new job about six weeks ago and I'm already a bit bored. That was fast....

I worked so hard to get this job and now that I have it, I realize that I'm still not fulfilled by it. Isn't that true of almost any accomplishment we set out to achieve? We learn that we cannot possibly be filled by this or that because the truth is that each of our hearts have a God-sized hole and He is the only one who can fill it.

This weekend my colleagues and I played a departmental golf tournament. It was SO FUN.
If you can remember, one of the things on my #30b430 list was to learn to golf. While I'm not good by any stretch of the imagination, I feel like I'm getting the hang of it. Let me just repeat this: IT IS SO FUN. If I have the opportunity to go again soon, I will jump on it. Some of my drives were 150+ yards and I had a few good pitches and putts as well. I've been to the driving range a few times before but never golfed a full 18 holes, so it was just great. I was teamed up with 3 of my colleagues who were patient with me and great coaches, which is always really helpful.

Speaking of the #30b430 list.... next week Ciara and I will drive from Seattle to San Diego on the Pacific Coast Highway. I am so excited!!! I've never been to the West Coast.

Prepare for gobs of pictures!

St. Junipero Serra, pray for us!

29 March 2016

HAPPY EASTER!

I am so thankful that Lent is over. I LOVE Easter.

One of my favorite verses in scripture is 1 Corinthians 15:17, "if Christ has not been raised, your faith is in vain; you are still in your sins."

St. Paul is CONVINCED that the Resurrection of Jesus is really real, and that it is efficacious in our lives, even today.

I love when people believe that what they believe is really real. (That's a Curtis Martin phrase.)
 


Get this: Ciara IS CATHOLIC. This is one of the greatest blessings to my soul thus far. I kept it together through her Baptism and  Confirmation. She was the first person in the whole Parish to receive Jesus in the Easter Eucharist. I was closely behind her and when Father said "The Body of Christ," her response was the most enthusiastic "AMEN" I have ever heard. We then received the Precious Blood and I got back to the pew and LOST IT. Ugly cry and all. It was so refreshing and peaceful and sure. She's gone to receive Him every day since. I am so humbled and so so so grateful to God.

Here is something else I've been up to:



Check out more information here: Catholic Evangelization Meet Up

If you so happen to be in DFW, please come!

Come, Holy Spirit!!!

24 March 2016

Mission is a Spectator Sport

Happy Triduum!

This month I've been having a hard time hearing God speak into my life during prayer. Outside of prayer though, He's been loud and CRYSTAL CLEAR. He's been moving in big ways.

In prayer, since I've had a hard time communicating with Him, I've been asking Him to take my heart and transform it without my knowledge.

Giving someone full consent to wreck your life seems risky. But God is infinitely good, and desires my own good even more than I do.

He's really come through for me in radical ways. My former roommate (whom I wrote about here) is coming into the Church IN TWO DAYS! I am honored and humbled to stand beside her and I'm so proud of her for taking this leap of faith.

Also, I've been good friends with my colleague Kevin for about 2 years now. (Our teammates call him my work husband.... whatever.) Kevin has been asking more and more questions about Jesus lately. Today he agreed to read Mere Christianity with me. If you know me, and I suspect you do, you know that I'm not great at showing Jesus to my colleagues, so again, this is a moment in my life when I feel like I'm witnessing God act from the outside looking in. He's made it abundantly clear that I can not make anyone a Christian, but He can and will and does.

Also, I'm working on a new initiative with the Diocese of Fort Worth to build a community of evangelists and equip them to lead small groups and do discipleship. Get exciteddddd!!

Have a blessed Triduum.

St. Mary Magdalene, pray for us!

24 February 2016

The Finite Field

Some exciting things have been happening professionally for me this month.

I received an award for Excellence in Action from last quarter. It's typically a peer nominated, boss decided award, so it's an honor to be nominated and to have won. Each quarter, each team gets one of these awards for Excellence, and it can be given for a variety of different categories (own the outcome, tell it like it is, put the client first, etc.). With it comes a shiny plaque and $300, which is cool. I've won it 3 times in the 12 quarters (3 years) I've been with the firm, while on 3 different teams. Surprisingly to you who know me, I've never won for the category 'tell it like it is.'

On the Feast of Our Lady of Lourdes, February 11, I also had my 3 year anniversary at the firm. While this isn't that big of a deal usually, for me it means I officially have 3 years of industry experience. I submitted my transcript,  my background check, my job descriptions over the last 3 years and got an email from the CFP Board authorizing me to use my CFP letters. This means that I am now officially Brittany Anderson, CFP®.

Also, I found out last week that I got the promotion I was up for. I beat out 5 other candidates and I start my new job on Monday. I will still be working with clients who work for non-profits (doctors, professors, etc.) but now I will be working with them as they get closer to retiring and have more complex financial situations (as opposed to when they're just starting out saving). This is a HUGE accomplishment for me, as the job description "requires" a minimum of 5 years of industry experience and prefers at least 7-10. I do believe that the 14 months of weekends I put into the CFP gave me the boost I needed to stand out among my peers to get this job which, according to the job description, I am not qualified for. I'm looking forward to doing more complex planning, and it doesn't hurt that the job comes with a 25-50% pay raise depending on my performance.

I'm reading a book by Suze Orman, who is a "personal finance guru" according to her website. I was gifted one of her books, The Courage to be Rich, so I'm diving right in. She's kind of like Dave Ramsey in the eye of the media, I suppose. I think it's important to read popular personal finance books because this is what kind of financial literature (if any) my clients are exposed to. I'm about 50 pages in, and so far all she's talked about is our attitude towards money. I think it's important to consider, albeit a bit "fluffy."

One of the comments she made had something to do with the finite field of finance. (Try saying that ten times quickly.) That phrase hit me hard. As a part of the Church, we're told (and I'm convinced) that one could spend a lifetime studying Scripture, the Catechism, the Magesterium, Church History, the Art of the Church, and most especially God Himself and never be finished. (See Saint Augustine's vision of Heaven, when He was convinced that all of his writings barely scratched the surface and was tempted to burn them all.) In college, I was pre-med for two semesters. I think that medicine (while not an infinite pool) has similar characteristics. One could spend a lifetime learning about healing the human person and never reach the end. So why did I choose finance?

When I was a missionary, it felt like my work was never done. In the work of evangelization, it never is. There will always be more we can be doing, always new people to meet,  more sins to conquer (in my own heart), more prayers to pray, etc. One of the things that I tell people that I love about my job is that when I leave work, I'm completely done. I don't bring my laptop home, I don't answer client emails from home. I work when I'm at work, and  I don't when I'm not. For someone Type A like me, I think the distinction is nice. One of the things I've found though, is that I get bored quickly. Starting Monday, I will have held 6 titles in 3 years, and I have always been exceedingly ready for the next promotion by the time it comes around. Perhaps this is because my field truly is finite.

Remind me to write another post on the benefits of a leave your work at work mentality, and the idea of not being fulfilled by one's 9-5.

St. Joseph, the worker, pray for us.

Signing off,

Brittany Anderson, CFP®
Director, Retirement Planner

(new letters + new job title because I'm prideful and I like the way it looks.)